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Dear Advice Girl,
My boyfriend is really popular at school, and most of his friends are girls. They’re always hugging him and it gets me jealous. Should I tell him that I’m not comfortable with it or just stay quiet? I don’t want to seem clingy.
Signed,
Rocket Girl
Dear Rocket Girl,
The downside of dating a flirty guy who’s popular with the ladies is that, well, he’s flirty. And he’s popular with the ladies. Which, honestly, is probably one of the things that made you like him. (Who doesn’t want to snag the guy that all the girls want?)
So instead of ranting at him, remember that he’s not doing anything he didn’t do before you pinned him down. Your best move is to be cool about it and get to know his friends a little better. You’ll discover that they’re not all out to steal him.
That is, unless this harmless flirting gets un-harmless. If you have a really good reason to suspect your man is cheating, then confront him about it.
Love,
The Advice Girl
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